J is not a young person but not too old either. His wife is a local caterer and they have many family members that help with his care.He has had his ups and downs with his health lately too.  The family all come in and deliver him and pick him up.J is frail , but has a twinkle in his eye that is unmistakeable. He uses a walker with a seat and often has to sit before he gets inside the treatment room. His shock of solid white hair hides the fact that he is only in his 60’s. The wire-frame glasses, perched on his round face, cover his blue eyes that show the illness he has been through.J’s voice is quiet and slurred from a previous stroke, but he gets his thoughts across just fine.   Five people come in every day in a local delivery bus and all come from out of town. Those five are all black and mostly men.More on them later.  There are more men than women who go there. Many people could go to another town but prefer to go to this center. I have heard that other centers are larger and DO NOT have the quality care that this place gives. Guess we picked the right one. Mom likes all the nurses there and trusts some over others. Some are much better with STICKING or STICKS than others. This means they can start an IV or take samples and do it faster and more proficient.Those few are a welcome sight to all those sitting in those chairs. Life at the center is like another world.


White cotton sheets cover almost every single person during treatments. Taking the blood through the machines it has to be  thinned with something called Heparin. That makes the person feel cold to the bone. Those white, heavy cotton blanket sheets are heated in a warmer so that the patient feels warmth from the outside of their body. I have seen mom use up to 3 of those blankets during her stay and the machine is stocked constantly during the day. The center goes through probably 100 a day. The center is brightly lit and hums with machines with alarms that go off every fifteen minutes or when a patients blood pressure goes too high or too low. The machines are now set with the governments new guidelines for blood pressure 110/70. Most patients do not have  low blood pressure and the new numbers are NOT too popular with patients or the nurses. Rest comes easy for some at the center..Mom is not one of them.  More on that later….. 

































I was a caregiver for the elderly on and off for over 30 years.I am now retired and enjoying a new life. I love blogging and have kept a personal journal for 40 years. I enjoy the freedom of being creative and interacting with the millions of other bloggers in the world.I love learning the new things that the computer world has to offer. I have made friends that will last a lifetime blogging, something I never ever thought would happen. I hope you enjoy my blog,and will continue to visit me in the future.

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